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Hi ladies, I know, long time no see. I am sorry I kind of just dropped off. I think I am just pissed at myself because I am up a total of 7 pounds from my pre weight I need to get my arse kicked and just get going again.
I tried to read all the posts to catch up but I know I did not get them all.
OTD - I am sorry life is kicking you in the butt lately. Financial issue totally suck. They always seem to cause way tooooo much stress. I would do what ever works best for you sweetie and if bankruptsy is it then go for it. You will be surprised how fast you can build your credit again.
Denise - Been think about you too deary. I hope things start looking up for you too.
I am not likeing my lipo from last week. I don't think he took out near enough. He said he got 6 ounces of pure fat. That is only around 200 ccs. I just feel it was a waist of time and boy am I feeling pissy about it. I don't to post much about this in the main tt forum because I do not want to be a downer but I feel way more comfortable with all of you.
Happy Lisa - I totally focused on your picture in my head when it felt like he was using a ice scraper on my abds.
Mega HUGS to all my gals here. I hope everything looks brighter soon. I was 191.4 yesterday morning and am going to try and stick to once a week weigh ins for a while since I am doing a lot more strength training than usual. I am on week 3 of workouts in the morning, 6 days a week. That has to add up eventually right?
Hello Connie and Gisele!!! It's a crazy week, pet/housesitting and planning to move into the apartment on Saturday. Stressful, but food has been good. Can't wait to be moved in and get back to my old routine.
stepped on the scale this am and - 180lbs have no idea how that happen - but I'll take it. sorry to hear all the life downs you are having OTD - you'll be in my prayers and i am hoping it all turns around for you!! Denise you are doing awesome and I have to just say way to go girl!!
saw my eye surgeon yesterday - surgery had to be moved to the 7th Nov get to wear the banage contact until then have to change it next week - having my preop measurements etc...this contact is not as bad as the last one i wore. It doesn't seem to pick up the protein desposits like the other ones -
Good Morning and Happy Friday to all! OTD- I hope thing will get better for you soon! Sending you hugs! Denise- I hope your move goes well! GG- Your doing well GG!
Hi to everyone just on my way to work......144.8 this morn. It's Thanksgiving this coming Monday for us Canadians......Happy Thanksgiving.....I hope you all have a nice Thanksgiving with your loved ones!
denise-happy that things are moving in the right direction for you! and i hope you are happier at your new place. i assume everything is going well with your eye, you don't say, so i am hoping that no news is good news!
kim-one more month till another eye surg huh? will this be it, or will that be an unknown? and congrats on the 180!
and happy thanksgiving to all the canadians! didn't realize that you all celebrated it, and that's weird that our dates are so different.
thanks for all the well wishes all, you all are about all i have as people to talk to, guess that's why i let all kindsa stuff out on here. the financial stuff i have reconciled with, it's not bothering me much anymore, but will feel better when it all gets finalized and hoping that the gvmt says i don't have to pay back that back ssi they think i owe. whole other story. the relationship stuff is same old same old, i am ready for ultimatum and breakup time in my head, but man, that means if i am a single mom i have to like cook and clean! eeewwww.... but really, as we all are, i am just ready to be happy, and i haven't been for 6 years. i am trying to be supportive, but at some point my happiness and the kids seeing me upset has to count for something. i know i can't change him, i can't make him go to counseling, so I don't know what else to do. as it is i don't even know how to separate b/c he has no income! no car, no bank account, nothing, i can't kick him to the streets and his family is far away and unable to help him as well. guess i need to have a talk with him, maybe we can at least do separate rooms in the house? and i can pay him as a babysitter? buy him a little 1000 car? yes i have thought about all this a lot over the years!
i just want to be happy! is it my turn yet to be happy??
me and the kids went to the zoo on friday, after eating at ihop (where my adhd/autistic daugh threw a fit outside where we were waiting, it was awesome), then we went to the dollar theater. it was so so weird being out with them without my bf, i dont know when i have ever gone and done fun stuff with just me. weird. but they had a blast so there you go!
anyway, still looking for a used treadmill, so havent been running as much, but have been doing more jillian michaels, that b*! also have had quite a few bad meals, i kinda go thru the f it stage when i am unhappy as well as a not eating much stage. but i am still 138 even with that so i guess it's ok! been running up and down the stairs at work sporatically throughout the night since it's too cold to walk outside now, better than nothing i suppose. my coworkers also still catch me practicing ballet exercises which is amusing i am sure...
my contract here is up in dec, not sure if i am gonna stay, go somewhere else, or go back to wa state to be close to my ex sil, who is at least sort of willing to help me with the kids if needed. and i do mean sort of!
anyway hope everyone is having a good w/e! yes i am at work!
Dream wrote: my contract here is up in dec, not sure if i am gonna stay, go somewhere else, or go back to wa state to be close to my ex sil, who is at least sort of willing to help me with the kids if needed. and i do mean sort of!
Dream- Have you thought about moving closer to your family? I don't know if your close to them or not, would this be an option for you? Maybe you would have more support then and you could make a clean break from bf?
Edited OTD - happiness - you have a right to it.....and it amazing what a person can do if (HE) is forced to.....like work, or move back home. You're not responsible for him - he's a grown man. Give him a time line to get out and let him know you mean it....but it easy to give advice from afar, huh? I hurt my knee with all the moving, need to get back to my exercise routine....the knee will hamper a bit.....seems like forever that I've had my healthy habits in line.... just in time for the holidays. LOL May have to skip belly dance class tonight....it's really hard on the knees.... Denise
Hi ladies!!! Sorry been MIA for a few - out of town for work. Still feeling good, at 124.2 for me didn't have any workouts last week but was back at it again last night. See what the end of week brings.
Great job Denise...No Carbs, low carbs...just hard - I have changed that to be "healthy" carbs - my body needs them to lose the weight. Glad your in a new happy place!! Its all about body, mind and soul!! So great to have some comfort in your life!
OTD - I truly understand where you are coming from. However, you have children and they need you. He is a grown man...like it or not he also has put himself into this situation. Time for him to grow up and looks like it may be the hard way. If you so choose, you owe him nothing but a peaceful goodbye. I say it is a great move if you can get closer to your family - nice to have some comfort around
hi guys, thanks for the support. the reason for the guilt with bf is that i really dont think he is able to work b/c of his ptsd, no it's not an excuse. and when we get along i love to have him at home being the housedad, and at my beck and call. dang, women just arent ever happy huh? that's why i have given him so long, he went to a couple of counseling appts then stopped, it was so hard for him to dredge all that up. something else i cant make him do...anyway, we will see.
oh, and i dont have any family support. my brothers dont talk to me, i barely talk to my mom, so there u go. that's why keeping the bf around is my only support. my ex sil is the closest relative i sort of have, and she would help, but remember that she is also the one that is pretty self indulgent and everything is about her. she isnt really involoved in her own daughters life, but at least it would be someone, i know. still dont know what i am gonna do about all this, but am trying not to dwell and freak cause its getting me nowhere.
talked to a long lost friend on the phone tonight which was super weird but nice, havent talked to her in 11 years! we were great friends but somehow stopped talking and i moved away. anyway, happy to hear from her, and i am hoping we can become close like we were before.
still looking for a treadmill-seems like there is mostly only super crappy stuff on sale on craigslist, or stuff too overpriced. i dont want something cheap and loud, but you know, 500 bucks or more used is a bit much! so looking at cold weather sports type face masks to see if that makes the breathing better! sitting at 138, altho i did see 137 before a night of pizza and alcohol! waiting for the rest of that to come off...
Morning 146.0 today.....too much Thanksgiving food and now I'm back up again. I go up a couple lbs. and then down a couple lbs. I just can't seem to get lower! Oh well at least I have been going back down those couple of lbs! I still haven't been going to the gym! I just can't get myself motivated.....that's why I am not losing any weight either! It's getting colder here now.....we have our furnace running....winter is on it's way and walking is getting cold so I must try and get back to the gym so that I don't start to gain weight. Have a good day everyone!
Good Morning everyone!!! Hope your all having a great week. Fall is such a pretty time of year just love it - However, been more like winter than fall as far as the temperature goes!!...would love nothing more than to cozy up on the couch with a blanky!! 124.0 for me today.
Good Morning and Happy Friday! 144.2 lbs. this morning.
Happy I agree with you Fall is my favorite season.....except for the cold weather coming back! I love the changing of the leaves all the pretty colour's. I went shopping for some clothes last evening and the sales clerk told me I had such a beautiful flat tummy It always feels good to hear that! Have a Great weekend Gal's! love Jelly
HAPPY FRIDAY!!!! Going to be a great weekend with the weather and will get out and maybe even do some pumpkin pickin!!
123.4 today....it has been a pretty good week - few days of running while the weather is still kinda okay. Thinking I may try to do this more through the the winter if I can. Plan on trying a 10k in may, but feeling so determined to want to do it - we have a treadmill at the house but it is a piece of you know what!! I prefer my elliptical ten times over - have even started switching it up and going backwards
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I need to get my arse kicked and just get going again.
